i need help. fast.
This is my first time doing this, so I feel sort of embarrassed/shy about doing this.
Okay, so here's my problem:
In the beginning of this school year, I liked this guy named Brandon for a while. But I thought he found me annoying, so I didn't even bother with him anymore. I'm really good friends with his sister and so is another one of my friends.
Anyway, later on when I finally moved on, I started liking this other guy, Robby. He's in a grade lower than mine and we've got to hang out a lot, but he still had a girlfriend at the time and when he finally broke up with her, he told me through text that he likes me.
Then I found out from Brandon's sister that he likes me, a lot. And has for the longest time.
Now, Robby has a history for not being in relationships for very long. He doesn't like being "held down", and I've taken that into consideration. But I told him after he told me that I liked him. And I don't want to seem like I was lying, because I wasn't and lying isn't my thing. And Brandon, so I've heard, will do anything to keep a relationship going. He's quiet, sure, but he's a sweet guy and he seems to be worth it.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to be conceided, or anything like that. I just need to figure out what I should do. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I've noticed that not hurting either one of them is impossible. How can I keep both of their friendships' and not make things awkward between us?
i think brandon sounds like a very loyal and decent guy which (trust me) is hard to find. if you really like this guy go after him. but just tell robby that you would rather remain friends than chance losing a good friend. let him know that you still will be hanging out with him and having fun but you just dont want to chance ruining a good thing.
sorry if its not much but thats all i got
wow, thanks! i think this'll help make it a little easier for me. =)